Life is over the baby is born

Life is starting – the baby is born ! This is a better way to look at it because there is a build up to the birth of a baby that brings with it that feeling that your life is over – that the life you are… bringing into the world is somehow causing your life to diminish - that now the baby has arrived your life is over - you become less as the baby becomes more – that you are now your parents and are responsible for a new life perhaps soon after you could barely be responsible for your own – that you can’t come and go as you please – that you must give rather than take – that the late nights out are replaced by late nights in – that the what about me becomes the what about you. Its not easy sometimes but would you give your baby back ? Would life be as complete without a baby ? Don’t the biggest sacrifices give the biggest rewards ?

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